Owning a pet is often one of the hallmarks of childhood. Almost all American children, 90% according to Parents magazine, will have a domestic animal in their home while they are growing up. To parents, pet ownership is a way to help foster empathy and instill responsibility. To children, pet ownership means having access to a perpetual playmate and a real life version of their favorite cuddly stuffed animal. Caring for dogs and cats can also help build self esteem and reinforce the concept of boundaries for children. With so many benefits, it would be hard to make a case against having children and pets in the same household.
However, pets and children are not always an automatic fit and may be more like oil and water than best friends. The child who has begged for a puppy for two years can suddenly find themselves hiding the dog’s leash or hiding from the dog under the bed. As reality fails to meet expectations, both parents and children can find themselves experiencing buyer’s remorse. The key to creating a successful relationship between your children and your pets is to start the relationship out right. The Arizona Humane Society recommends taking the following steps to make sure your relationship between your child and your pet is strong from the start.
Pick the Right Pet
Whether you are looking at adopting a cat or a dog, thinking about what kind of animal is best suited to your family can be the difference between a successful start and a rocky road. Considering things like the animal’s temperament, size, age, energy level, and needs will help ensure you get the cat or dog that perfectly fills in the family picture in your mind. Many parents immediately think that puppies and kittens are the best fit for small children because they will be able to grow up together, but oftentimes the time commitment, patience, and care required to train and raise animals under a year old are much more than a child can handle. A dog that is too big or too rambunctious might jump on smaller children, nip at them, and leave them terrified of dogs for years to come. A cat that is too young might be accidently injured by a child that plays too rough with it or might scratch or bite the child to get away. Picking the pet that is the right fit for your family is the first step.
Set Clear Expectations
Before you bring your new cat or dog home, it is important that everyone understands who will be expected to do what in terms of caring for the family pet. No matter what kind of pet you are adopting, there is more to caring for that pet than making sure it has food and water. Dogs and cats need playtime and exercise every day. Cats need to have their litter box maintained and dogs need shelter if kept outdoors. Everyone in the family needs to understand the work involved in caring for the new pet and how that work will be handled. For parents, it is important to understand that no matter how responsible your child or children are, they cannot be solely responsible for the care of the family pet. One of the benefits children receive from pet ownership is learning responsibility, but that is a process that takes time, modeling, assistance, and adult supervision.
Taking the time to pick the right pet and make sure everything has the right expectations helps ensure everyone in your family will have a positive experience with pet ownership, including your new pet.
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